ABSTRACT We all go through different stages in life that serves as basic teachings for us on our way to greatness. This book gives a major overview of what understanding the process really is. TABLE OF CONTENT CHAPTER ONE ........................................................................................................................................ 4 The little beginning ................................................................................................................... 4 CHAPTER TWO........................................................................................................................................ 5 Discovering ................................................................................................................................ 5 CHAPTER THREE ..................................................................................................................................... 6 The backup................................................................................................................................. 6 CHAPTER FOUR ...................................................................................................................................... 7 Apparent result ......................................................................................................................... 7 CHAPTER FIVE ........................................................................................................................................ 8 You are not alone ......................................................................................................... 8 CHAPTER ONE There is always a start of something, safe to say a starting point, a starting point is a spot that a particular thing significantly begin, I am Fatokunbo Deborah and this is my process story. I left my original abode to the beautiful city of Lagos, my dad had passed on few month after I was born, leaving me with my mother and my siblings, I remember vividly just what that day looks like even with age passed, my older sister directing me to the safe path until we got to our destination as we had left for Lagos together, grandma, as we do call her welcomed us with a big smile upon our arrival and the day went on. The plan was staying with her, as I was just accompanied by my sister, she left after some days and plans were made on enrolling me into a school which brought about knowing baba who was grandpa’s friend, he took me to the school to continue my schooling. It was a cold morning as we arrived at wright memorial primary school, we were summoned in by the admin, a lady, after baba had several conversations with her, she then gave me an assessment to take, on completion, she grabbed the booklet from me, went through it with a sign of satisfaction. She went on to tell baba that the ideal thing they do to pupil of my category is letting them start all over from primary one, but due to my assessment and baba’s conversations with her I will be welcomed to primary two, it wasn’t that I was so good but probably the moment was just in my favour. After I started school and moving on with life over in Lagos, I could recall several times where children in the compound come together in the evening from their various apartments to play, I joined them and always feeling left out and embarrassed whenever they are doing intellectual activities.